Hi Adrienne. It is something I was taught, how to complete a woman’s needs. It wasn’t something I could just do, like it is for a man. I’m still learning because for Jenny, it can change depending on time and need. It is so important for a man in a loving relationship to understand and learn how a woman’s body can need different things, and sometimes that an orgasm isn’t everything. Thank you for writing so frankly about this subject Adrienne. 💕🌸