Hi Heather, welcome. When you write, you need the security of love and understanding, for you will be gone much of the time. Yes, gone. Not out of the room, not across an ocean, just gone, to worlds and places and thoughts none but you can experience and when you return you will need loved ones to be there, so you can be certain of your life, because sometimes when you get back you are damaged by what you have written. Keep on writing, loving, and coming back!