Hmm, LM, you write as that wasn't your place to do such things. If your husband didn't buy you a mixer with wheels on it, that's terrible. With wheels you won't hurt your back. I would assume that feeding your husband first is a natural priority, you are a woman and a wife, are you not? Honestly, LM, you sound like Jenny whinnying about how life seems unfair.

Yes, broke my leg, and was told my ego is too big to have waited for help. I think it might take me five years to recover. Anyway, lass, be getting on with your duties. 😁