I feel do out of it reading through these responses. Kind and thoughtful and appreciative. I don't have a clue what it means. I suppose it is about sitting in silence and letting go. I trained in a world of black versus white, no middle grey. A decision made meant life or death. No sitting in silence to gauge what my life was, is, or could have been. I font take an age to choose a new suit. I pull the jacket closed. Good, thank you, this one works, but I can stand in a store all while my wife tries on new dresses. Go figure, Lee. I’m so glad your readers get a lot from your posts. That's truly wonderful. 💕🌸