Written with such honesty and thoughtfulness, Sal. Not sure I'm the whole way there. My wife is, loves family visits. Strange dynamic. Basically, I'm a prick when my routine is upset. I enjoy going, knowing I'm leaving on my time frame. Weird as this is, what family I have do love me tremendously. Even the grandchildren love me, little buggers. Thankis, Sal. I'll try to do better.